1. If you don’t like the way he kisses you, you won’t like the way he fucks you. Get up and leave.

2. If he won’t go down on you, but expects you to go down on him, laugh. Get up and leave.

3. If you don’t want to do something and he doesn’t respect that, slap him round the face. Get up and leave.

4. If he isn’t okay with the imperfections on your skin, if he says they turn him off, get up and leave.

5. If you don’t want to shave your legs and he thinks that’s disgusting and refuses to touch them, get up and leave.

6. If he doesn’t see your body as a masterpiece, as a complete work of art, get up and leave.

7. If he makes you feel uncomfortable about any part of your body, get up and leave.

Get up and leave // E.E (via be-fearless-brave-and-kind)


This is what I looked like and what I was wearing when I was almost arrested for assault this afternoon.

I said I would post a more detailed story earlier and this is it. I was shopping in the men’s section of Forever 21 when two guys started shouting obscenities at me. They called me names that range from d*ke to “fucking queer” to f*****. They asked me where my dick was, how I felt about being a disappointment to my parents, and told me they were disappointed because they would have fucked me if I didn’t try to act or look like a boy. I was very calm and quiet [because I was trying to find a really awesome shirt in my size] and that irritated them. When I found my size, I had to walk by the dweebs to the cash registers. As I walked by, one touched the side of my head and said “it was a shame.” I spat in his face. I was checking out and ready to leave the store when an officer who patrols the mall came up to me and arrested me for “assaulting” the men. I was handcuffed for 15 minutes while the officer talked to witnesses who vouched that I was being harassed so he let me go “with a warning.”

And that’s the story of how I was almost arrested today.